You know what's wrong with our society today? The Four Tions(sounds all spiffily Chinese, eh?): Motivation, generalization, communication, determination.
Motivation- no one has any. They only do things if they can get something out of it. They never go out of their way, and we're just friggin' lazy. If you were in India you'd be working your ass off right now. We're just plain lazy. Unless it's something we want to do. But there's so much shit in life you won't want to do that we might as well just make the best of it but we don't- we always leave the work for tomorrow. I'm not in any way, shape or form saying that I'm not just like this, but it's an observaTION (har har har!)
Generalization- I heard about 4.6 billion Christian obsessee's generalize other Christians today- that none of them support abortion, none of them support gay marriage, they all have good morals, none of them are gay, they all read the bible. They generalized gay people- which pissed the FUCK out of me, I was really ready to get up and strangle this chick..- that the only reason any of them want to get married is for tax benefits. Tax bene-fucking-fits. WTF?!?!?!??!!?! *kills* I generalize sometimes too, yes. That all teens want to rebel. That all kittens are evil. That all cheerleaders are ditzy morons and all football players have sex a lot. That all trumpets are egotistical. About half of these I'm fully joking on(trumpets, kittens), but it doesn't make it right that I assume about everyone else. I hate how much we all generalize. It's just not right. And it pisses me off to no end. Regardless, there are many people who do fit the stereotypes, but there are many people who don't. GREAT examples: All band people are geeks, all Christians are obsessed with Christianity, all gay guys are sweet little angels. It may be majority, but it's not the rule.
Ahh, yes, communication- perhaps my favorite, if nothing else because I CAN say that I communicate. I just ask straight out "are you pissed at me?" "do I annoy you?" etc. etc. And not enough people do. You cannot have a good, solid relationship or close friendship without communication. There are some people who if I need to talk to them I will. Like, if I think something's wrong with Mike because he didn't laugh at a joke, I won't talk to him, but that's because I know I'm just being overdramatic. But if I think that Mike is ending our friendship and he starts ignoring me- I'd ask him about it. It's not fair to either party when one person holds in secrets. There are exceptions to the rule- such as secrets that must be kept or crushes. But aside from that, if something's wrong- ask about it. I can't stand, biggest pet peeve EVER, when people bitch to me about not having friends but yet they never go out and make them. Just do it! You've got the capability obviously! If I don't like someone I ignore them. So chances are if you're close enough to talk to me about that you're perfectly capable! When someone has a pet peeve with their girlfriend or boyfriend - tell THEM not me! Eesh..
Finally- determination. We are all determined to get the wrong things out of life. Instead of wanting to have close family bonds, we want good friendships which will last until the end of highschool and than fade. Instead of good friends, we want relationships which will eventually die. We want new cell phones instead of good grades. We set our hearts to poisonous things.
*breathes* Alright! Now that that's off of my chest and I've totally offended anyone within a five mile radius! ^__^;;;; Quote time..
"Dont forget about the ones that love you and keep loving those that you have loved."
"We all have friends, and we all have best friends. The difference between the two is huge. You are supposed to be able to tell your best friends anything at anytime, there should be no conflict or mistrust. The friends are there to provide support comfort and to have fun. Like when u want to hang out and/or chill. Dont get the two confused and put friends before best friends."
=X smart kid... whose older than me >>;;
On one final note..
TOMORROW'S FRIDAY!!!!!! YEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH BAAAAAAABBBYYYYY!!!! ^__^